The Art of Saying Nope with Girl Dinner

Now, the art of saying nope has reappeared in my life in the form of saying no to anyone or anything that isn’t supporting me, uplifting me, and showing up for me in the way I do for them. I match energy. A guy I was dating hit me with this gem: “That’s your problem;…

What’s The Frequency, Kenneth?

Last week, I took the train to Minnesota to see my family, which is always very special. However, this time, my dad was there. He recently moved out there to reset and connect closer to my sister and me, and we are so excited about this shift and time together. The guitars were tuned, the…

Mercury in Retrograde

I don’t typically choose my topics or themes ahead of time; I don’t make many set plans when I’m solo. My roommate wrote me a birthday poem once, and in it, she said, “she knows the plans best made, probably made before her,” and that is how I live my life. I let fate guide…

Nature’s Bounty

With community gardens & farmer’s markets bustling all over the city, my picture roll was flooded with flowers, fruits, and veggies for consumption & discussion. Now, don’t be ridiculous; I didn’t forget the libations. There are so many fizzy margaritas out in Chicago! I’ve never seen so much club soda being mixed with it before,…